Shay worried about moving to Junior school

Tonight Shay was in bed and not in a good mood, he called me and just wanted me to sit with him. After about 10 minutes he says "I don't like juniors, I will miss my friends. I don't want to leave infants"

 

I do my utmost to reassure him that he will see his friends and that he can always pop into infants whenever he wants. He says "I cant pop in every day" (This tells me its more than his friends he does not want to leave, but his teacher / welfare lady). I have told him he can pop in to see his infants teachers anytime.

 

Shay had me with a tear or two rolling down my face, when I looked at him he had tears rolling down his face,
 

Shay fell asleep, but the picture looks like he was in a deep thought before he fell asleep.

 
Shay does not like change, I wish we could keep his teachers and his special people with him. They are worth the weight in gold.

 

 The lady with shay is one of his special teachers. This year would have been so much harder without her. Thank you.

 

Update

Since January Shay has had a couple hospital visits re his bones / joints/ muscles. He has been unable to put pressure on his foot due to pain in his ankle, x-rays are clear so not sure what is happening.

We are awaiting a few hospital appointments re lumbar punch and other test, So July will be a busy month for him. When I have further re his hospital I will keep you all updated.

Shay has managed to do his First Holy Communion, something which I never thought would see.

Shay meets Harry (From McFly)

Shay had a fantastic day yesterday, he met another rock star, Harry from 'McFly'

Harry was impressed with shays dress sense and told him that he will be wearing the jeans and boots in his next video, as shay looked cooler than he did. This impressed shay, who's smile started to get bigger and bigger.

Shay asked me several times if I had said thank you to Harry for meeting him. I did, but shay never fails to amaze me, he always thinks of other people.

My little rock star.

Regards

Alan

A Brief Update on Shay 24/01/2014

Shay has been himself and battling along, as shay does, without any worries, no matter what happens or developments Pearson's syndrome gives us.

He has been diagnosed with Hypoparathyroidism for which he now takes Alfacalcidol drops.

Shay has had his peg changed at GOSH back in October 2013 and whilst this was done he had a lumbar puncture. Shay has had trouble remembering what he done in the morning or he will be unable at times to how to count. He will start to count, but then he will forget what number is next and then you can see he is trying his best to remember but he cannot remember. His face shows that he knew the number and he starts to get upset, so he will change what we were talking about.
With the lumbar puncture result it revealed that his CSF folate levels were low. With these results shay has started to develop symptoms associated with Kearns-Sayre Syndrome. He has been diagnosed with chorionic neurological disorder. He is now on calcium folinate which will hopefully slow the progression down.

A MRI and another Lumbar puncture is being booked in to happen in a few months, so they can compare and see how much his condition has progressed              

Regards
Alan

Recent posts

Hi all,

Sorry that I have been unable to update the sit for a few months, I will get this done in the next week or two.
Briefly shay is fine, and doing well, we have had a few hospital appointments and some low levels in Shay's blood. But I will get this site updated in more details with what has been occurring to shay over the last few months.

Shay has had some fun as he was taken to the police riot training centre by a good friend of his. The  pictures and information about his day will be placed on this site too.

Any questions please feel free to comment on the site and I will get back to you.

Have a Heart Appeal

Shay was invited by Starlight to take part in the ongoing Have a Heart Appeal. The Have a Heart Appeal is raising money to make seriously ill childrens wishes come true. Shay was thrilled to be a part of this appeal and thoroughly enjoyed being interviewed by the shows presenter. He was asked questions about his 'Rock Star Wish' that he received from Starlight last March. As usual Shay enjoyed being the centre of attention and thoroughly enjoyed the interview process.

No coughs, colds or virus’s Shay has been enjoying life germ free! It really is about time that his body was given a rest from all the germs and bugs that have been going around.

Shay is now on an extra feed at night to meet his daily calorie intake. He is on an extra 500ml giving him a whopping 750 extra calories. He coped extremely well with the extra feed as we introduced it 50ml at a time and built up to the 500ml. It was great to see him pile on the weight with this feed and gain a bit more energy! Shay’s muscle tone has improved dramatically as he has been going to children’s fitness sessions and now has quads he can be proud of.

As you know Shay cannot really go more than a few weeks without something happening. He is now in a cast for a fractured tibia. We don’t know how Shay managed to fracture his tibia and he is unable to tell us. He was in tremendous pain but is now relatively pain free, thanks to the cast. The hospital wanted Shay to have a weight bearing cast so it wouldn’t affect his mobility too much. Exactly 24hrs later Shay was in immense pain that even pain meds couldn’t ease for him. So 8 hours and two hospitals later the cast was finally removed and a non-weight bearing one put on. The original cast was put on to tight causing a huge sore on the instep of Shay’s foot!!! The plaster technicians were more interested in talking about lack of staff and how many people were sitting in the waiting room. We are back to fracture clinic this week to see the consultant, so we will be complaining about the lack of care and concentration from the technicians when putting on Shay’s plaster cast.

 

Another heart breaking concern for us is Shay’s lack of memory skills/cognitive development. He thoroughly enjoys learning about the world and most importantly how things work. He can tell you about planes, cars, bikes and railways. When it comes to recalling how to count this can cause major problems for him. In nursery Shay was able to count up to 20. Only the other day he started counting and got to 4 (you could see him getting confused) and then he said “Mum, I lost count”. He tried it two more times and was unable to recall what number comes next. Shay is able to process information but when it comes to recalling everyday skills he isn’t always able to. He struggles with people’s names who he has known for a long time. He has no problem recognising who they are but will stumble over the name. Shay was struggling with my own name a few days ago. I have spoken to other Pearson’s Mum’s and this seems to affect a few of our older children in our group. Some of them are on medication that seems to help their cognitive development. We are seeing his specialist in a few weeks and will bring this up with her. Hopefully there is something that can help Shay improve his memory and cognitive development before it really starts to affect Shay’s learning.

Take care everyone and thank you for keeping Shay in your prayers.