Shay's mobility...

For the past couple of months Shay has been complaining about pain in his legs. On one occasion we took him to the hospital to check his lactic acid levels. Acidosis in a child with Pearson's can be fatal. Thank God it came back negative, but we are still no where near knowing what is wrong with his legs.

It is totally heartbreaking to see him in so much pain and trying to get on with things as best as he can. Since the start of the summer holidays there has been a dramatic decline in his mobility. He now favours his left leg for weight bearing when climbing the stairs, taking one step at a time and when he is coming down he is hanging onto the rails for security. Shay will start limping and more and more often his right leg gives way. This has happened a few times and he just drops to the floor and cannot move : ( I took Shay shopping the other day and within two minutes of us being in the shop I had to leave, he could hardly walk. I have noticed how Shay is always sitting when he is playing. Everyday he spends hours sitting down, sometimes he just sits and enjoys watching his sisters playing.

Something has happened/is happening to Shay. Something we cannot explain but it is obvious to us his parents that he is deteriorating in front of our very eyes. I can see it in his eyes and cannot explain the feeling to you of how I/we feel when we see our little man looking like that. Life is very unfair to do this to such a sweet lovable boy. All he wants out of life is to be like everyone else and do what other children are doing at 4 years old!!! We can't explain to him whats happening and even if he was old enough what would we say. Shay cannot remember what it is like to feel 'normal'. He was such a happy, energetic little baby who was always climbing and running around. He is still that happy little boy but so much has changed for him. It's the most frustrating feeling in the world when you struggle as parents to help your own child.

I would like to thank Fiona B for being there for Shay and coming to massage Shay's legs for him. Fiona is a physiotherapist and is extremely busy. We gave you no notice whatsoever and you came to him straight away. The massage worked extremely well for Shay and he only woke up with a little niggle of a pain in the morning. This lasted for four days before he started complaining that he was in a lot of pain again. Your a STAR!!!

Shay received a very special gift today from one of his friends today. He had no idea who the people in the photograph are but he was over the moon with it. The photo had his name on it and signed by all the people in it. We explained to Shay that the people in the photo were darts players and one was the current world champion along with the other two being previous world champions.

He really wanted to have the picture hung up next to his in the hallway, but we persuaded him to have it on his wall in his bedroom. This was a very kind gift from a good friend of Shay's. It just goes to show that Shay makes such an impact with people and that they are always thinking of him.

A big thank you for making our little man feel extra special again!

Pre-planned hospital visit.

After weeks of deliberation and worry, we decided to let Shay have his port removed. Shay went in on Tuesday as he had to have an ECG and bloods taken to make sure that he was well enough medically for the operation to go ahead.
Even on the way to GOSH it was 50/50 in our minds whether to go ahead with the operation. After talking to his doctors it was decided the best course of action was to have it removed. This was because he no longer needs it for red cell transfusions and also they are seeing alot more ports becoming infected and failing. They put it to us that they would prefer Shay to have the port removed in a controlled environment like GOSH, rather than him being rushed in as an emergency case. So the removal of the port was in place plus a lumbar puncture. Shay was slightly embarrassed when he had to put the hospital gown on, he did insist on keeping his boxer shorts on. For any parent it is the most heartbreaking thing to see your child put under general anesthetic, but for us it was even worse. Working on a patient with Mitochondrial disease is extremely risky and shouldn't be undertaken unless it is absolutely necessary. The entire procedure we were told would take around 40 minutes to complete. After the longest ever 40 minutes we started clock watching, an hour went by and we really started to worry. Worrying never gets us anywhere as we were called down to theatre just past the hour. Prior to Shay going under they wanted to also take a tissue biopsy which we agreed to. The tissue biopsy was taken from the port site so he didn't have this as an extra wound on his already marked body. The biopsy will tell us so much about Shay. It will take a very long six months for the results to filter back. We know Shay has Pearson's but this will tell us which complexes are affected; whether it will or is morphing into 'Kearnes Sayre Syndrome' amongst a whole lot of other information. Also it will quite possibly tell us what is happening with his legs as this is one area he always complains of being in pain. It's going to be the longest wait ever.
Shay is now back home and is recovering slowly. He misses his port as it is something he has got use to for two years and Shay will miss showing his port of to everyone that he meets.

Shay & The Royal Bodyguard

On the way to GOSH on Tuesday, Daddy and Shay were invited onto the film set of 'The Royal Bodyguard' to meet some of the stars and characters.

Sir David and Tim welcomed Shay onto the set and both of them made him feel totally at ease. Even though everyone was obviously having a very busy day, they took time out to talk to Shay. They were absolutely great with him. As usual Daddy was snapping away with the camera and Shay took everything in his stride. Shay thought Tim looked funny covered in oil and wanted to know why. He questions everything at the moment and can ask up to 20 whys before he is satisfied with the answer! The Bodyguard is being aired Christmas day, which I am sure Shay will enjoy watching.

2nd Hospital Visit!

Shay was recently tested to see if his body had developed antibodies against the childhood disease chickenpox. Back in March he developed some spots which the hospital thought was chickenpox. He was quickly put on antiviral drugs over a five day period. The test came back negative meaning Shay has not had chicken pox previously.
A couple of days later Shay wakes up one morning covered in spots his temperture was starting to rise, I really couldn't believe what I was seeing. A very Quick call to the hospital and we were on our way in. Shay was kept in for five days again, he was closely monitored as he is still neutropenic. His temperture went up to 40 and down again numerous times throughout his stay. The doctors did not know what effect the chicken pox was going to have on his body. Thank God all that is over!!! We are going to have his antibodies checked in approximately 8 weeks again. This should show us that it was indeed chickenpox. Also a very big thank you to Shay's community nurses who made it possible for Shay to come home for one afternoon. They were able to bring a mobile iv machine which enabled Shay to have his meds in the comfort of his own home. Little things like this makes all the difference to our little man.

1st Hospital Visit!

Shay has had a bad couple of weeks and is now well on the road to recovery. Firstly, Shay has been complaining of pain in his legs. He will wake up in the mornings limping and cannot walk down the stairs. This seems to gradually get better after a couple of hours. Lately however, it has been happening more throughout the day with no recovery in between episodes. It got to the point where we were so worried that I phoned Shay's paediatric consultant at his local hospital. She advised for us to bring him in straight away. We were extremely worried that Shay was showing signs of metabolic acidosis. The doctors were extremely quick at taking bloods and sending them to the lab to be tested. I am estactic to say that they came back negative showing no signs of acidosis. We don't know what is causing his pain but he still has it and complains constantly to us. When he is with other children he tends to hide how he feels as he just wants to be part of a group and be like everyone else.

Shay's special day.

Shay has just had the most fantastic day as a new fledgling police officer! He has been asking Daddy for quite a while to "go catch bad boys". A huge thanks to the Metropolitan Police Service for making this dream come true.
Shay was aware that he was going with Daddy and his friend Simon to work for the day. Shay was excited that morning and he even helped pick what to wear. What he was not expecting was to be issued with his very own uniform! The uniform services dressed Shay in police trousers, a police shirt, belt and utility belt and even his very own beat duty helmet (all customed made to fit Shay especially). Shay looked in the mirror and whispered to daddy "get bad boys dad". Shay was thrilled with his helmet it really made the day that extra bit special. Now all he needed was a set of wheels, so a short walk to the driving school and he was in his element. He enjoyed being driven around with lights and sirens on in the police armored truck. That was not fast enough for him, it was not long before he was in the marked BMW estate chasing a criminal around the streets of Hendon. The pursuit lasted about 5 minutes before the criminal stopped and tried to run off. Constable Shay Murray was overjoyed when he managed to catch the bad person and even arrested him.
Next, it was the skid pan. After the car spinning around the first few times Shay said to Dad "just like Mummy, Dad". Shay took all the spins, turns and stops in his stride.
Now, Shay loves being around dogs and it was a real treat for him to see the dog section at work. Shay was introduced to several dog handlers and a couple of the police dogs. Shay was shown how the dogs track naughty people and then shown how they catch them when they run away.

After a display the dog sergeant showed Shay his dog and let Shay groom him (which he thoroughly enjoyed). Whilst doing this Shay noticed a handbag on a chair close to him. A few minutes later Shay started to blow his police whistle as he had seen a criminal take the bag and run off. Shay was blowing his whistle really hard and started shouting along with the other officers present. The best part was for Shay to witness the police dog chase 'the bad person'. Shay witnessed the dog attack and knock the criminal to the ground. Most children would have been scared witnessing this. As Shay had his uniform on it didn't faze him one bit whatsoever. At this point in the day Shay was looking very tired but still wanted to do more.

After lunch and getting some much deserved rest. An important part of Shay's day was to meet with a senior officer. Shay took the oath and was proudly sworn in as a police officer. He was awarded advanced car driving certificates just to name a few. Shay had a fantastic day and as usual he didn't want to go home. We knew it would take him a few days to recover, but just seeing the amount of fun and excitement he had today has made it all worth it for our little man.

Shay enjoyed meeting some fantastic people and we would like to thank each and every one of you for making this day just so perfect. Don't tell Daddy BUT Now he wants to be a FIREMAN!