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Welcome to Shay's story and thank you for taking the time to find out how Shay is doing. It is a place to share our hopes, sadness and the happy times that our little man has. Shay in April 2008 was diagnosed with Pearson's Syndrome a Mitochondrial disease with no cure. Pearson syndrome is very rare, less than a hundred cases have been reported worldwide. It characteristically present in early infancy with pallor, failure to thrive, pancytopenia and diarrhoea. Additional manifestations often include progressive external ophthalmoplegia, proximal myopathy with weakness, and neurologic disturbances. Multiple organ involvement is quite variable. Most infants die before age 3, often due to unremitting metabolic acidosis, infection, or liver failure. Those few individuals who can be medically supported through infancy may experience a full recovery of marrow and pancreatic function. These children eventually undergo a transformation from Pearson's syndrome to Kearns-Sayre syndrome with the development of ptosis, incoordination, mental retardation and episodic coma. Life as we use to know it I cannot remember. We have to live in hope that a miracle will happen for our son.

Thursday 14 February 2013

Have a Heart Appeal



Shay was invited by Starlight to take part in the ongoing Have a Heart Appeal. The Have a Heart Appeal is raising money to make seriously ill childrens wishes come true. Shay was thrilled to be a part of this appeal and thoroughly enjoyed being interviewed by the shows presenter. He was asked questions about his 'Rock Star Wish' that he received from Starlight last March. As usual Shay enjoyed being the centre of attention and thoroughly enjoyed the interview process.






Monday 11 February 2013


No coughs, colds or virus’s Shay has been enjoying life germ free! It really is about time that his body was given a rest from all the germs and bugs that have been going around.
Shay is now on an extra feed at night to meet his daily calorie intake. He is on an extra 500ml giving him a whopping 750 extra calories. He coped extremely well with the extra feed as we introduced it 50ml at a time and built up to the 500ml. It was great to see him pile on the weight with this feed and gain a bit more energy! Shay’s muscle tone has improved dramatically as he has been going to children’s fitness sessions and now has quads he can be proud of.

As you know Shay cannot really go more than a few weeks without something happening. He is now in a cast for a fractured tibia. We don’t know how Shay managed to fracture his tibia and he is unable to tell us. He was in tremendous pain but is now relatively pain free, thanks to the cast. The hospital wanted Shay to have a weight bearing cast so it wouldn’t affect his mobility too much. Exactly 24hrs later Shay was in immense pain that even pain meds couldn’t ease for him. So 8 hours and two hospitals later the cast was finally removed and a non-weight bearing one put on. The original cast was put on to tight causing a huge sore on the instep of Shay’s foot!!! The plaster technicians were more interested in talking about lack of staff and how many people were sitting in the waiting room. We are back to fracture clinic this week to see the consultant, so we will be complaining about the lack of care and concentration from the technicians when putting on Shay’s plaster cast.
 

Another heart breaking concern for us is Shay’s lack of memory skills/cognitive development. He thoroughly enjoys learning about the world and most importantly how things work. He can tell you about planes, cars, bikes and railways. When it comes to recalling how to count this can cause major problems for him. In nursery Shay was able to count up to 20. Only the other day he started counting and got to 4 (you could see him getting confused) and then he said “Mum, I lost count”. He tried it two more times and was unable to recall what number comes next. Shay is able to process information but when it comes to recalling everyday skills he isn’t always able to. He struggles with people’s names who he has known for a long time. He has no problem recognising who they are but will stumble over the name. Shay was struggling with my own name a few days ago. I have spoken to other Pearson’s Mum’s and this seems to affect a few of our older children in our group. Some of them are on medication that seems to help their cognitive development. We are seeing his specialist in a few weeks and will bring this up with her. Hopefully there is something that can help Shay improve his memory and cognitive development before it really starts to affect Shay’s learning.

Take care everyone and thank you for keeping Shay in your prayers.